Uncomplicate Your Relationships – Understand Perspective

Uncomplicate Your Relationships – Understand Perspective

Relationships are vital for our sustenance. However, relationships are the same reason we are disturbed.  We always feel what we know, believe and understand is right and when the other person comes from a different point of view we feel he is not informed or is naïve, otherwise, how can he disagree. What we don’t understand is every human being has its own values, belief systems which shape his or her point of view. This is simply because we are born and brought up in a different environment and what we see, hear, and feel shapes our beliefs. Since we are different we also have a different perspective, failing to understand which creates friction. Understanding the other’s perspective can be tough. However, with little patience, flexibility and time you will not only be able to understand the other’s perspective but it will also add greatly to your own vision and…

Resolve Conflicts with Coaching

Resolve Conflicts with Coaching

Conflicts can kill an organization’s productivity and personal relationships. In the corporate environment employees work in teams and different teams work on a common project.  Many assignments and initiatives suffer because of conflicts between HOD’s and team members.  If we look at personal life, conflicts in a relationship can result in divorce, family disagreements and business conflicts. Coaching can help to support people to resolve conflicts by putting forward and understanding others perspective. Conflict coaching allows the coachee to talk about the conflict with the coach who is neutral and assists the coachee to discover solutions and identify ways to discuss the conflict with the other person. The onus of the resolution lies with the coachee and not the coach. The coach asks powerful questions which allow that opens up the thought process of the coachee which enables him to evaluate solutions not thought of before. Another important area where…

Get Over Those Bad Incidents

Get Over Those Bad Incidents

Bad incidents have a huge impact on your behavior, thought process and reaction. These incidents get stored as bad memories and do not allow you to move on and severely affect your daily routine & well being.  Also, people around you including your colleagues, friends, and family get impacted as your behavior towards them change for the worse and they don’t really know the reason for this change. Bad memories could be anything ranging from a fight at your workplace, negative feedback or public scolding by your manager. Death, accident or any incident that impacts you negatively. People affected by bad incidents impact their companies as well: Productivity falls as there is a loss of concentration. Also if the incident is related to the office the employee loses respect for the company Relationships with team members and managers take a fall which impacts team working Client management takes a hit…